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		We all strive to set good examples...We know this is important. But why is it
		that even with the best of intentions, we often fail? Sometimes we do not set
		good examples for our kids to follow. We do not deal with our own issues
		and learn from our mistakes...yet, we want our children to succeed and
		reach their highest potential!

		Do you give up?
		Sometimes, we do not continue looking for solutions to life's issues - but the
		possibility is there, in every encounter we have with them. What would it take
		for you to find out what is really going on with your child? How would life
		be if you sat down and really listened to them as they are talking about a
		difficult situation and then you did everything you could to support them?

		Whose reality?
		How do kids decide what is reality? Kids want to know what's real. They are
		constantly considering what values to adopt. As they develop their
		individual value systems and decide where they stand in matters of right
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and wrong, they look to parents to				Can you stand your ground and set
listen to their conceptual thoughts and				limits - do you dare say "no" when
feelings. They will move on from				you really need to?....Even when
black and white rules of right and				family members are criticising what
wrong to discovering their own				you are doing? (At these times when
principles to guide them in how to				stress is high, saying what is needed
act in different situations, if we allow				is the beginning of gaining another's
them.				respect).
				It's hard to keep praising your child?
Do any of these issues apply to				You do not recognise your kid's
you?				successes?
It's a parent's right to tell (or yell) at				Your kids use activities as excuses
kids about what is to be done?				not to fulfill their jobs at home?
Kids cannot grasp that their actions				Older children with jobs do not
affect others?				financially contribute to the home,
Kids continuously fail to get				nor with cooking, washing and
somewhere necessary on time?				maintenance? (This prepares them
Can you avoid holding grudges?				to cope when they leave). .
				..

You shy away from or do not prepare for questions of sexuality from kids?
Competitiveness is what drives many of the decisions you make for your
kids?
The learning difficulties of your children render you unable to cope at the
best of times?

We are often blind to the ways we do things over and over (our patterns and
our thoughts), yet they are likely to be plainly obvious to others.

Your Life Patterns assists you to gain insights into the patterns or games that.
run you and the children in your life...It will highlight what you do that prevents
you from fully benefiting from the time you spend with them.





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