Here's what participants are saying about Your Life PatternsM. Kovari Relationship & Individual Counsellor, BA (Psych) B.Soc Stud. AA MFC, Mental Health Worker | These seminars have helped to change me and my approach to life. As a result of them, my marriage has gone from being one full of conflict and unhappiness to one of joy and harmony. I am now far more confident, positive and successful in all aspects of my life. |
Dr. K. Chuah, MBBS | This seminar has greatly helped me to wake up to myself. I no longer blame my spouse for the things that I sometimes feel. I can now examine myself and take responsibility. As a result, I do not blindly repeat old negative ways of behaving and I can now understand why my spouse behaves the way he does. I can act with compassion and look past his behavioural patterns. This makes our home a happier environment for children to grow up in. My thanks to you Larayne. |
Pauline Hylder Ad. Dip. Accounting, Grad. Cert Management| "Larayne Porter is an inspirational and motivational presenter. Larayne has given me a deeper understanding of how I "play out my game" and the behaviours that have caused me unhappiness in the past. I am happy and content. Life has never been this good. |
Hermman Chan| My mother language is Chinese. My wife Keri, she is Australian.We are facing 3 major challenges with us: 1. Culturally .We have a huge difference on the value of a marriage or a family. This kind of underlying issue makes for a huge difference between us. 2. Languages. My mother language is Chinese. So between me and Keri we have a very different usage of. English. It makes the meanings maybe in an opposite way that does not make our marriage easier. 3. Step-children. I have 3 most delightful step-children growing up These 3 points give stress and pressure to our marriage and are enough to finish our marriage. And we were heading that way. I was so angry at work and at home, and I didn't really know why. The same issues coming up again and again. I asked "why me?" Luckily we studied Your Life Patterns courses. I learnt to recognise my patterns - good and bad. Because of that I can do things more appropriately. This brings my emotions to a calmer state. I achieve results in my marriage which enables us to continue our relationship into a deeper, committed, loving marriage. This year will be our 24th year in our marriage. To me this is a major achievement in my life |
Maxwell Fisscher| This is the basics. As I understand the patterns of people around me I am less stressed. I never understood one of my work colleagues until I understood what his patterns were. I now feel I know where he is coming from, so I don't wonder about his reactions and he doesn't stress me anymore. Same as my boss; understanding his patterns enabled me to be comfortable in my approach when asking him questions. Your Life Patterns certainly made me aware of things about myself that I wasn't aware of. I can see that things are often not the way they seem. The underlying message is that what I was reacting to was often not the true issue. |
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