T E S T I M O N I A L S               Here's what participants are saying       we have a very different usage of. about Your Life Patterns:       English. It makes the meanings Hermman Chan       maybe in an opposite way that does "My mother language is Chinese. My       not make our marriage easier. wife Keri, she is Australian.We are facing      3.  Step-children. I have 3 most 3 major challenges:       delightful step-children growing up         with us. 1. Culturally .We have a huge         difference on the value of a marriage     These 3 points give stress and pressure   or a family. This kind of underlying     to our marriage and are enough to finish   issue makes for a huge difference     our marriage. And we were heading that    between us.     way. I was so angry at work and at home, 2. Languages. My mother language is     and I didn't really know why. The same    Chinese. So between me and Keri     issues coming up again and again.         .       I asked "why me?" Luckily we studied       Your Life Patterns courses.               I learnt to recognise my patterns -       good and bad. Because of that I can       do things more appropriately.               This brings my emotions to a calmer       state. I achieve results in my marriage       which enables us to continue our       relationship into a deeper, committed, .     loving marriage.               This year will be our 21st year in our       marriage. To me this is a major achievement       in my life".                 Maxwell Fisscher         "This is the basics.     Same as my boss; understanding his       patterns enabled me to be As I understand the patterns of people     comfortable in my approach when around me I am less stressed.     asking him questions.         I never understood one of my work     Your Life Patterns certainly made me colleagues until I understood what his     aware of things about myself that patterns were. I now feel I know     I wasn't aware of. I can see that things where he is coming from, so I don't     are often not the way they seem. The wonder about his reactions and he     underlying message is that what I was doesn't stress me anymore.     reacting to was often not the true issue"       M. Kovari, Relationship & Individual Counsellor, BA (Psych)   B.Soc Stud. AA MFC, Mental Health Worker   "These seminars have helped to change me and my approach to life. As a   result of them, my marriage has gone from being one full of conflict and   unhappiness to one of joy and harmony.I am now far more confident, positive   and successful in all aspects of my life".       Dr. K. Chuah, MBBS   "This seminar has greatly helped me to wake up to myself. I no longer blame my   spouse for the things that I sometimes feel. I can now examine myself and take   responsibility.       As a result, I do not blindly repeat old negative ways of behaving and I can now   understand why my spouse behaves the way he does. I can act with compassion and   look past his behavioural patterns. This makes our home a happier environment for   children to grow up in. My thanks to you Larayne".         Pauline Hylder   Ad. Dip. Accounting, Grad. Cert Management   "Larayne Porter is an inspirational and motivational presenter. Larayne has   given me a deeper understanding of how I "play out my game" and the   behaviours that have caused me unhappiness in the past. I am happy and   content. Life has never been this good".       Linda Nocera   Linda's Creative Floral - A Personal Touch   "I can't believe how wonderful my life is. I have joy and passion for my personal   life and my business. The quality of my life keeps getting better all the time.       I am able to understand people on a deeper level and communicate better   with them. My communication skills have improved. My life is continually full   of surprises. I am learning every day "..   ...................................... Intro | Relationships | Business | Kids | Seminars | Contact | Notes